Mum’s Christmas cost of living crisis as she can’t get her son, 10, presents

A heartbroken mum has been forced to tell her 10-year-old son he won’t be getting any Christmas presents this year - after being financially crippled by the cost of living crisis.

Christine Borton, 48, was left devastated at having to inform her young son Dayjanta Samuels not to expect any gifts on Christmas Day as she can’t afford it. And even more sadly, she says Dayjanta ‘already knew’ and ‘wasn’t surprised’ that would be the case due to the family’s ‘desperate’ financial situation.

The single mum-of-three has been struggling to pay the bills since she was left unemployed due to medical reasons and lost her job as a support worker last year.

She has been forced to survive on food banks and universal credit monthly handouts since April - but says it doesn’t even cover her monthly bills. Now Christine is facing further winter hardship as the cost of living crisis ramps up fuel and electric bills - leaving the mum short on cash. It has left her making the difficult decision to cut presents from her seasonal plans so she and her son can make it through the winter months.

‘Life is tough right now’

Christine, who has two grown up children and lives with Dayjanta in Wednesbury, said: “Life is tough right now. I’m unable to cover all my outgoings, I can’t cover my basic needs never mind presents. I told Dayjanta about four weeks ago. I told him there wouldn’t be any presents. It broke my heart.

"He has been looking forward to a Christmas present but he realises now it won’t happen. I think in a way he already knew. It wasn’t a surprise. He understands we don’t have the funds for it. He knows the situation, he doesn’t ask for sweets and ice-cream, he’s pretty laid back and just says: ‘Don’t worry man’.

"I am very worried about the next few months. Dayjanta looks at the electric meter and keeps telling me how much we’ve used - he’s obsessed about our finances all the time. A 10-year-old kid shouldn’t have to worry about that.

"My little one is looking at the gas and electric and screaming at the levels. Before you know it they need topping up and you can’t afford food. I’m even behind on my rent here already, there’s just not enough money."

A wake up call for the government

Christine, who is trying to get back into work, has now called on the government to better support struggling families during the winter. She added: "The only plan I have is to get a job, and trust me I have tried. Now my bills are nearly £1,200 and my universal credit doesn’t cover that. I haven’t been shopping since January. My freezer is empty.

“Companies these days don’t care what situation I’m in, they just care about money. I tell them ‘don’t you see the crisis that is happening.’ I have to go to the local shop and look for the offers. I go to the foodbank but you don’t get what you really need every time you go there.

“It’s difficult but you can’t bother people all the time. People are going through their own issues, my little one worries about everyone. What the government need to do is see how individuals cope on Universal Credit and provide more support.

"I don’t think the government really cares. They have given a bit of money to help with energy - but what about gas? What about food? Sometimes I just want to scream and pack up and leave but where am I going to go?"

Looking to the future

Football-mad Dayjanta practices everyday and has promised to share his money with his mum when he makes it as a professional player.

Christine added: “Dayjanta is football crazy. Every Saturday we practice football at this place. He always says he’s going to share his money with me, telling me all the things he’ll buy me.

“But he’s a worrier, he’s very concerned about what’s going off. But he doesn’t need to be worrying about all that at his age. It’s hard right now but we will carry on."